A Year in Review

Well the one year anniversary of my blog has come and went as it was on June 1st. Now people would expect a post and some sort of fanfare of how I made it one year. Kudos, right? That is not exactly my style of writing and I would like to start by saying why this blog became into being and give background on what makes this blog what it is or what it could become.

I have been a kinky person all my life and knew I had a spark of interest in the fetish world far before I even knew what it would entail. Hell if I knew this is where it would lead and just think it all started with one childs' pair of metal handcuffs. My feelings towards kinky continued to grow and interest other than just metal came into light in my teens. College is where I began to experience what bondage meant to me and how I grew from all the positive and negative sessions I had with my captors. I started to realize that I was not alone in my thinking when I reached out and expanded my horizons in the world of submission. I continued to meet great kinky friends who helped mentor me and guide me to be a better person and a far kinkier person.

This lead me into marrying a very kinky man in Canada, but sadly ended in divorce after 4 years. This divorce made me re-analyze how I viewed kink as kink ended in my relationship. I was not going to be limited anymore since this tragedy of a relationship loss happened. Again my thirst for sub-servitude made me meet many great guys. Also I reached more into my dominant side and began to tie people and learn from my peers about dominance and control. I always had the spunk of being a alpha and trying to fight back, but this as different as my role changed when I met Kinkyboinick who changed my life.

Now how does this all play into how a blog was started, when this is the backdrop of my own kinky story? These life events shaped my into having the will to go to IML with kinkyboinick. Thats singular event made me realize that I was proud to be part of this fetish community and I wanted to share aspects of my life story through my fetish eyes. I wanted to have a purpose of information, pleasure, friendship, and feedback. I cannot take credit for this blog but for the words that I write on its pages. the credit goes to the doms, handlers, mentors, subs, slaves and friends that have shaped me, provided the kink, natured my passions and obsessions in what is BDSM.  It is fitting this year that IML was right around the same time I started my blog and the friends are added to my list and again my fetishes have grown deeper with more of an appreciation for the art of bondage and the lifestyle of kink. I would like to thank these people for inspiring me: kinkyboinick, kinkmaven, macroshea, Divepup, skip, firebravo, Fossil9, Toil, Tynan Fox, PupTrigger, hockeyman13, WetsuitPDX, shacklekid, icecrow18, badnickie, bondagefirst, clyer, jonathanswitch, baggedup, Mplsguy, boundinrubber, csuskaterboy, footballjock, crewbiker, slarty4242, nixjohn,  subboy951, onehotboyz20, kinkyymilwaukeeguy, mtlsubboy76, NateQx, FlyboyFL,  flabound, DerrickPaul, colobondage28boy, danman1289, yngMstrDetroit, dantekorvin, and indoorsoccer. Thank you all for making me the kinky person I am today!!!!

Here is my email so you can leave personal comments about my blog and provide me with some feedback. Because after all this blog is for the people who read it and follow it.
 cuffsman10@hotmail.com